While writing this, my feeling is full of burden. I feel so down with bunch of thoughts in my mind and really make me down. I was thinking why should I do to comfort my heart? Then I watched a TV, there was a talk show, interviewing men who love their wives who are disable. They showed they passion of their love to them, and true happiness is not what you ask from your couple to make you happy, but how you share the love to other people surround you and THAT IS THE REAL HAPPINESS. It was good show. I feel like, I must do more gratitude to God of what I have got, not grumbling what I haven’t got at this moment. This makes me feel peace and comfort. Let us not focusing on what others need from us, not what we need from them then we will find the true happiness.

Program Your Mind With A Software to Attract Money….sounds weird, doesn’t it?

Indeed, how can a software program our mind to attract money? This software was founded by John Petrov.  And maybe you guys have same experience like him. Here’s what he said how desperately he was to apply the Law of Attraction.

My name is John Petrov.
Less than a year ago, I was at the lowest point in my life.
My relationships and finances were tearing at the seams and I was falling apart physically, emotionally and mentally.

Unbeknownst to me, life as I knew it was about to alter forever.

I had watched “The Secret”, read all the right self-improvement books, and had spent close to $5000 on online self-help programs and courses which were designed to…help me reach my dreams. But the only thing I was reaching was the end of my rope, as none of these courses offered what I needed more than anything – immediate results. (more…)

Too many pages and blogs describe about ‘The Secret’ or Law of Attraction, and proof from people who applied it, that we must FOCUS ON WHAT WE WANT not on what we don’t want, and write them in the piece of paper and read them at least twice a day and MANIFEST them! Practice makes perfect, doesn’t it?

Here are steps to re-focus your mind and re-train your imagination by David Schimer, the mail checks and car parts guy from The Secret:

1. Know exactly what you want. Take out a pen and paper and write down what is NOT working in your life how you want it. Could your marriage be better? Do you have the money you need to do and buy the things you want to? Do you have an illness or are you often sick? Are you unhappy? Are you working at a job you hate? Do you live in a home or area you don’t like?

2. Now write out on another sheet of paper in present tense exactly how you do want each of those things to be. Don’t just write “I want a better relationship.” Write out, in detail exactly what you want to do have and become. For example, “I have a loving fulfilled relationship with my husband. We spend time every day together communicating and falling more in love. We enjoy frequent romantic times together, like walking along the beach hand in hand or sitting enjoying a coffee together.” Describe your life exactly how you want it to be.

3. Once you have completed that task, throw away or burn the first list you made of what is not working. You don’t want to read or focus on that ever again.

4. Re-read your new life at least twice a day. When you wake up first thing in the morning and just before you go to sleep at night. Just like a child pretend that it already is, add emotion to it as if it has already happened. Re-writing your new life increases clarity, emotion and expectation. (more…)

Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another  often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.  The following three word phrases can enrich every relationship:

I’LL BE THERE – Being there for another person is  the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things  happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and  friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. ‘Being > there’ is at the very, very core of civility.

I MISS YOU – Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged  and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other,  “I miss you.” This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired  and loved. (more…)

Speaking in public does not come naturally for most people. However, if you aspire to success, you’ll need to master the art of public speaking. Well, perhaps not master it, but at least be comfortable with yourself when speaking in front of a crowd.

The crowd need not be 500 angry shareholders at the annual meeting, it can be a gathering of sales staff, a church group, or even a birthday toast to a good friend. Speaking in public means that you have an audience and, more often than not, they are listening to every word you utter, which makes it important that you don’t slip up.

What follows are 7 easy tips you can use to help improve your performance with speaking in public :

1. Relax

The simple thought of speaking in public is enough to make most people nervous. The actual act of doing so will result in many people simply freezing on the spot! Their heart rate quickens, their hands get clammy and they seem to speak (dare I say stutter) incoherently. (more…)

One of the best ways to make a favorable first impression — and to get ahead socially or in business — is to remember people’s names.

“A person’s name is to him or her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.”
-Dale Carnegie

You can improve your ability to remember names if you follow these four steps:
1. Commit

Begin by making a commitment — a conscious decision — to remember people’s names.

Don’t let yourself off easy, blaming a “bad memory.” Forgetting names is due less to a bad memory than to a lack of application. Tell yourself — because it’s true — that you can remember names if you want to and if you work at it.

Before going to a meeting or a party or anywhere you might meet people, remind yourself of your commitment. And recommit yourself: “I will make my best effort to remember the names of the people I meet.”

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Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Ask yourself why you weren’t happy? Too often relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames their partner. Your life is solely under your control, with your relationship you have to take the good with the bad. You need to give as well as take.

Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the differences between yourself and your partner. Do not expect your partner to agree with you on every issue. Reach a mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it. If you say you’re going to meet your partner for lunch at noon, be on time, or call if you’re going to be late. If you agree to have a monogamous relationship, keep that agreement. Keeping agreements shows respect for yourself and your partner, as well as creating a sense of trust and safety.

Use communication to establish a common ground to understand different points of viewand to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. You can either choose to be right, or you can have a successful relationship. You can’t always have both. Many people argue to be “right” about something. They say. “If you loved me, you would…” and argue to hear the other say, “Fine, you’re right.” If you are generally more interested in being right, this approach will not create a healthy relationship. Having a healthy relationship means that, while you have your experience, and your partner has his or her experience, you love and share and learn from those experiences. And if you can’t reach any kind of mutual agreement, that doesn’t mean either of you are wrong. (more…)

A man was sleeping at night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with bright light and the Savior appeared. The Lord told the man He had work for him to do, and showed him a large rock in front of his cabin. The Lord explained that the man was to push against the rock with all his might. This, the man did, day after day.

For many years he toiled from sun up to sun down with his shoulders set squarely against the cold, massive surface of the unmoving rock, pushing with all his might. Each night the man returned to his cabin sore, and worn out, feeling that his whole day had been spent in vain.

Seeing that the man was showing signs of discouragement, the Adversary decided to enter the picture by placing thoughts into the man’s weary mind: “You’ve been pushing against that rock for a long time, and it hasn’t budged. Why kill yourself over this? You’re never going to move it” —thus, giving the man the impression that the task was impossible and that he was a failure. These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man.

“Why kill myself over this?” he thought. “I’ll just put in my time, giving just the minimum effort and that’ll be good enough.” And that’s just what he planned to do— until one day he decided to make it a matter of prayer and take his troubled thoughts to the Lord. “Lord” he said, “I’ve labored long and hard in Your service, putting all my strength to do that which You’ve asked. Yet, after all this time, I haven’t even budged that rock by half a millimeter. What’s wrong? Why am I failing?” (more…)

Joe Vitales System For Attracting Cars, Fame, Fortune — You Name It!

Why the focus on manifesting a new car?

Good question.  Here’s why…

First, a new car is something almost everyone wants.  And since my mission is to introduce these principles to as many people as possible, teaching people how to attract a new car is the perfect way to do this.

And second, unlike subjective goals like wealth or happiness, a new car is tangible – it is easy to tell if you have manifested one or not.  I am so convinced these steps work, I want you to try them out on a goal that leaves no room for doubt.

So, are you ready for a new car — or something else?  Click here to find HOW!

by Alden Smith

Nowadays, there are reported many people are successful in earning bunch of money through internet. And some are trying on internet but failed. It wasn’t as easy as they thought. But some gave up. But some other keeps trying to find the right ways to be success in internet marketing. Everyone is open to try, but some have no idea where to start. Some start to be affiliates, write articles, etc. But there are many roads to go. But there is always a way to be success if you never give up. This way won’t disappointed you. Read carefully and think about it. Click here.

When you first begin working on manifesting something you want, you naturally have a strong belief that it’s possible. Without this belief, you wouldn’t even bother to try. From this belief, you begin doing the things that you know will bring forth the outcome you desire, like reciting affirmations, creating vision boards, visualizing daily, and so on.

For awhile, things seem to move along fine. You may even start to see small changes taking place that seem to confirm you are on the right track and making progress.

Then, more often than not, you may encounter some obstacles that threaten your belief. Progress may seem to stall so that it seems like you are doing a lot of work but nothing is happening; or circumstances in your life may seem to “fall apart” spontaneously, even if they are unrelated to your current goal.

When this happens, you may be tempted to lose faith. Little by little you may start to feel that perhaps you were foolish for believing that you could manifest this wonderful new experience, object or situation into your life. You may even begin to doubt that the Law of Attraction is real.

What you may not realize is that by losing faith and letting your belief fade, you are in effect setting a new intention – one that ensures that your original desire does not manifest.

The important thing to realize in situations like this is that your belief has the power to determine which way things go from this point on. If you believe the situation can be turned in a positive direction and progress resumed quickly, it will probably happen just like that. If you believe that all is lost and you have “failed” – you will create such an outcome.

Here are two good ways to use the power of belief in your favor in manifestation:

Strengthen Your Belief in Your Own Resiliency
No matter how intimidating, stressful, and chaotic a situation may be, keep affirming that you do have the ability to work through it and create something wonderful from it. State an affirmation like this over and over again each day, especially while going through difficult circumstances: “I know that I can handle anything that comes my way and manifest a positive outcome from the experience.” (more…)

Feel angry? Shame? Depressed? Self loathing? Do you struggle to find happiness? Do you feel you don’t deserve happiness? Most people have regrets. The challenge is learning how to cope with the regrets, forgive yourself and learn to be happy again.

You have made a mistake or many. Maybe it has caused significant damage to your life, marriage, job, relationships, etc. You may feel very negative about yourself, which continues to effect these areas of your life, as feeling happiness has become a struggle. Shame, despair, regret, powerlessness, negative, hopeless, depressed, may be just a few of the negative feelings you experience about yourself and life.

If this describes you, the first step is learning how to forgive yourself.

Step 2

First, understand the difference between forgive and forget. Forget means the memory is faded or gone. It will most likely be impossible to forget. This is especially true if the consequences are great and are experienced repeatedly. for example, if a divorce occurred because of your actions, you will experience the loss daily. Forgetting does not have to occur to forgive. (more…)

Stress can be excruciating and can cause frustration, anger, anxiety, conflict, or pressure. People feel the anxiety before a critical presentation in office or during exams. The present life style when we all strive for more and big, at any cost, adds to the stress. Most often, stress becomes a part of our lives and we learn to live with it.

Since stress exhausts you out physically and psychologically, you should plan to manage stress. A combination of proper medication, good diet, positive attitude and exercise can help you reduce stress from your everyday life. These help you control your lives even if you are facing some tragedy or a challenge.

In physical terms, managing stress helps you balance your life, for your priorities, your goals and your duties in life. You need to balance your personal life with work, monetary considerations, physical life and relationships. Rather than taking life as a regular exercise of dealing with frustrations, pressure and conflict, think positively.

So, what can you do to control stress in an environment laden with stress all over?

Breathe deeply. Air is a very important necessity. Taking a deep breath, especially when you are stressed can be very relaxing. So you can do this by inhaling through your nose, and exhaling the air from your mouth. Tension can be relieved as the release of muscles (especially in the neck) happens. (more…)

Breaking News! Former School Dropout Magically Morphs Into A Millionaire…

“Discover The Secret That Transformed This Hopeless Underachiever Into A Millionaire At Just Age 26… … And How You Can Use This Same Secret For Yourself To Achieve The Success YOU Deserve In Life!”

I Used To Be A Wash-Out, Drop-Beat Failure!

When I was eight, I was expelled from school for misbehavior and my parents had to go round the country begging other primary schools to let me study in their school. I was a total misfit.

I did so poorly for my primary school leaving examinations that I was rejected from ALL the secondary schools of my choice and I was dumped into a school called Ping Yi.

I was academically very weak and was always the slowest in class. I failed in four subjects of the eight I was taking and soon enough I found myself placed at the bottom of my entire cohort.

Not only was I poor in studies, I was also physically weak and mentally lethargic. I had poor social skills, I was bored, indifferent and soon I was labeled as a ‘problem student’.

I joined the boy scouts in an effort to learn valuable skills and widen my social circle but after only six months, I was thrown out of the club because I couldn’t pass the most basic test needed to qualify as a scout. I didn’t even bother to try again.

To make things even worse, my cousins were gifted students and attended the best schools in the country. Because of that, I really began to think I was born lazy, slow, unmotivated, maybe even stupid.

Like most troubled teenagers, I soon found myself addicted to the TV and video games and I allowed myself to sink into a catatonic stupor just to escape all the pain.

Did I want to be a failure?

No.

I wanted just as much like everyone else to be a success in life but no matter what I did or how hard I worked, things just screwed up and blew up in my face.

Until I Discovered The >Brain Secret< That Unleashed My Breakthrough Success…

From being an all out underachiever, I finally cracked the success code and I made my first million at just age 26. Click here to read more about this Millionaire’s story.